Release the Pain of Your Divorce in Just 95 Days!
Here’s How to Take Back
Your Life After Divorce!
- Full acceptance of your divorce without regret
- Release of the pain, resentment, anger and blame
- Control and eliminate reactive and destructive behavior
- Be empowered to take back full control of your life
- Raise your self-esteem and confidence
- Create a new enthusiasm and optimism for life
- Let go of the things that you cannot control
- Manage your negative mind chatter
- Establish firm boundaries in life
- Overcome fear of the future
- Rid yourself of old emotional baggage that keeps you stuck
- Recognize and seize upon new possibilities and opportunities Reconnect with what is important in your life
You Don’t Have to Grieve Indefinitely…
There is a grieving period that follows a loss in life and divorce is second only to the death of a loved one in terms of life losses. It is a natural response to loss and we all have to go through it BUT it should not and does not have to go on indefinitely.
Being in acceptance of your new reality is a mandatory step in your journey to creating a new life after your divorce. Acceptance of what is versus what we may think is supposed to be. There is reality and there is what you may think your reality should look like. A huge difference.
Learning to accept your reality and what you can and cannot control will open up a whole new landscape for you, one in which you will thrive as a human being. Life always changes and sometimes our life does not go as planned…usually for a good reason!
Don’t add meaning where there is none.
Change can be frightening. Fear of the unknown is what holds us back from creating a new life. Sometimes you have to give up the life you had in order to get the life you want. Sometimes you have to give up who you were in order to be the person you were meant to be!
To be alive is to live with uncertainty…it is part of the human condition. We can either fear the unknown or have some faith that everything will work out in our best interest. What if this divorce is part of a bigger plan? What if this divorce will give you the much-needed impetus to address old emotional baggage and clean it up once and for all? What if this divorce allows you to access hidden reserves of strength, courage and wisdom and change you for the better? What if your life gets better?
The 95 Transformational Divorce Tips will reveal to you the wisdom and life lessons in this divorce that will you allow you evolve as a human being and live a life that is more fulfilling and happier. Remember, life hands us challenges to teach us something. Order your copy today…
“It is not so much what life throws our way but rather how we choose to handle what life throws our way that makes the difference. In this life, we have control over one thing and one thing alone: ourselves.”
Dr. Karl Menninger (1893 - 1990)
Shelley's book has been very helpful to me as a woman separated from her husband. I found the advice both practical and deeply "spiritual" and I particularly liked the uplifting "coach approach" emphasizing self-awareness and empowerment, choice, and the encouragement to see gift and opportunity in the situation. If it is helpful to me as a separated woman, I can only imagine how helpful it would be to someone who is divorced, or going through the process.
Accountant and Financial Advisor for Divorcing Women; www.FreedomDivorceAdvisors.com
“Divorce recovery doesn’t happen overnight. If readers can process just one divorce tip a day – in three months they will emerge stronger, healthier, and ready to embrace their new life. Shelley’s divorce tips are a great reminder of the power of intention and positive thinking. I highly recommend reading and re-reading this book to help focus your attention in the right direction.”
Accountant and Financial Advisor for Divorcing Women; www.FreedomDivorceAdvisors.com
Having practiced primarily in family law for many years, in addition to my work as a judge pro tem and conducting settlement conference, I found Shelley's divorce tips to be an excellent source of strength. They provide a common sense direction for those going through this difficult time of divorce. Frankly, as a stepparent who has had to deal with "our own litigation" issues, these divorce tips were personally helpful to me.
Professionally, I know divorce can be trying and what so many people lack is direction. These divorce tips, having come from someone who has had such a life experience, are extremely meaningful. I plan to provide the book to clients who are going through this process in the hopes that these tools may make the divorce process easier on them.
Ronee Korbin Steiner, Attorney at Law, Scottsdale, Arizona
Nothing Will Change in Your Life if You Don’t Take Action!
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Shelley Stile is an accomplished and certified Divorce Recovery Life Coach, author and speaker with a proven track record of transforming the lives of her clients. Via her own personal experience with divorce and years of coaching clients to emotional recovery from divorce, Shelley has amassed a treasure trove of empowering and highly effective divorce tips for your own healing process.
“What I have discovered is that the tools we utilize in the divorce recovery process can be used to create a life that offers us more ease and happiness in general. Learning acceptance of what our life look like right now without trying to change it is the core of divorce recovery. Acceptance prompts the release of negative emotions, which grants you total freedom to create a new and better life after your divorce. These are skills that I want to share with you.”
The 95 Divorce Tips are profound yet simple steps that have proven to be the most effective tools in my work with personal transformation after divorce. They are short and sweet and they work!”
Here’s a strategy from the book for you to adopt:
Do you choose of your own free will, or are your choices simply knee-jerk reactions? As human beings we are gifted with free will, which means that we get to consciously choose what is in our best interest. Choice involves thought and consideration. What we choose will impact our lives. Something as simple as what we eat for breakfast, or as complex as the legal agreement for our divorce, all demand our free will, not our emotional reactions. Stop and think carefully before you choose. Don’t let your emotions dictate your future.
- Unable to accept the end of your marriage.
- Experiencing emotions that are all over the map.
- Feeling depressed, sad, angry, resentful, confused or filled with rage.
- Experiencing negative mind chatter.
- Fearful of the future.
- Beating yourself up with guilt and shame?
- Feeling powerless.
- Feeling like a failure, a reject, unlovable or unworthy?
- Blaming yourself or your ex.
- Unable to let go of the emotional tie to your ex.
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I highly recommend Shelley’s counseling to anyone who is going through a Divorce. I felt I had someone holding my hand while giving me support with great advice. It really made a difference in my how I felt, and began seeing things differently. I was surprised at the knowledge I gained working with her. The advice not only pertained to my divorce situation, but I have found it and her tools very helpful in my day-to-day living. Follow her instruction and you will receive the answers that will heal your wounds. Learn to live in the NOW of life. You will see the difference in how you feel immediately. I was a victim of divorce, now I am VICTORIOUS over divorce! Now I love living my life. Thank you Shelley!
LaDonna A, Florida
Shelley has been my beacon of hope in a very disheveled life – a life going through divorce and all the confusion, grief, fear and anger that brings. And oh yes – it brings more emotions to be sure – but it would take too long to list. I would often get the “Deer Stuck in the Headlights” feeling, but she gives you the tools and know-how to get to The Other Side of Divorce. She explains that the “other side” does not condemn you to a life of negative emotions and baggage, but rather a life of hope and fulfillment. A new life with you at the helm. Through actionable steps and keeping you focused on creating a new life of your making, she gets you through this difficult time in your life… all with a sharp wit and – at times – a toughness that is necessary, in order to quiet your inner gremlins who won’t shut up until Shelley shows up to break up the pity party. And all the while, I always felt that Shelley really listens to me as if I’m her only client, and doesn’t offer cookie-cutter or “one-size-fits-all” advice. I’m not finished with my journey to the Other Side of Divorce yet, but thanks to Shelley, I’m not dreading it. I’m now eager for it – and prepared for it.
Susan F, California
I entered into these sessions looking for someone to explain the chaos, lessen the pain; and help me move beyond the emotions. And, if that were all that occurred, it would have been well worth the effort. But these sessions have been so much more. Shelley has set before me a transforming journey of exploration and understanding and from the ashes I found ME. Thank you Shelley!!
Debra C, Denver, CO
Shelley Stile makes all the difference. She manages to inspire, motivate, support and comfort with genuine empathy, a sense of humor and great purpose. Her wealth of knowledge and insight is enriched by her professional and personal experience. A successful divorce goes far beyond a fair and just legal resolution. For me it involves acceptance, clarity and the desire and ability to live life with perspective, new energy, health and joy. Shelley’s coaching will enable you to achieve this. She is a must have for every divorcing and newly divorced woman.
Jill S, New Jersey
Shelley has been one of the most important and influential people in my divorce process. She has given me the tools to remember that my process and healing is what is important during this critical time. Shelley always reminds me of the power of choice, and the remembrance to make empowering and affirming choices for myself at any given moment. I have quickly progressed in my grieving process and Shelley has been a very important and essential part of that progression. I will forever use and be grateful for the tools that she has offered to me.
Donna G, Glen Ridge, NJ
I don't know what I would have done without Shelley's guidance through this divorce. I felt so hopeless but she has given me the inspiration to go on. Her first hand experience of how painful a divorce can be, gives her all the knowledge a person could possibly need to help others. After my first session a sense of peace came over me and I knew with her guidance, insight, knowledge, passion and faith in me I would make it through this...I couldn't have made it without her...
Susan S, Illinois
You have given me a new insight into moving on into a much higher level, not only in my divorce but also in the way I will live each day. That knowledge is a big gift for which I will be eternally grateful. It has already made me change the way I feel about my ex...and I have significantly moved into a higher level of forgiveness.
Jo V; Phoenix, AZ
There is no greater gift than the one of peace. No matter what life brings your way, that peace that lies within yourself is the thing that will see you through. That’s the gift I received from working with Shelley.Somehow, in the process of my divorce, I lost all the peace I had known and found myself in a constant turmoil of feelings, perceptions, frustrations, etc. all keeping me from listening to that inner voice and moving on with my life. Very quickly, Shelley helped me to see what really IS and to accept that. (Not that others hadn’t tried).
That acceptance of reality now has me living my new life – not a perfect one and not one without issues to deal with but still…one full of promise and excitement. I learned, with Shelley’s help, to let go, to ease up, and to live today with peace.
Working with her helped me find myself again and though we have not talked in months, her words and the methods she taught me, pick me back up when I feel knocked down and keep me going forward. I draw on them constantly to deal with what comes my way. All the while, the peace is back. You cannot give yourself a greater gift than that.
Thank you Shelley!!
Theresa M, Louisiana
Shelley has a gift for helping people who are stuck in any stage of the divorce process and want to move forward. She is warm and wise. When you are "in divorce", it is like being in a tornado. The pain makes it hard to get your bearings and to have faith that you will get out and will arrive SOMEWHERE safe and sound. In many ways, you feel as though you are struggling for your very life. Shelley is your GUIDE. She listens very carefully, has practical suggestions, supports you, but most importantly she lights a candle in your tunnel and helps you FEEL your way out of the mess. You can trust her 100% and she will not let you down. Forget spending money on "quick fixes" , sign up for coaching, and commit to really creating your new life out of the ashes. I did coaching for about 6 months, and it helped me more than I can possibly express. I am deeply grateful to Shelley.
Jitka Lom MD, Guam and feel free to give them my email address if they ask you for a reference.
In order to open a new door that leads you to a new life after divorce, the old door must shut. To move forward without the burdens of the past, you need to let go of a past that no longer exists. These simple yet powerful divorce tips will help guide you on a daily basis to take the necessary steps that will unleash a positive and empowering perspective on life. It is all how you choose to look at your life.
You say you cannot see anything bright about your future? Perhaps that is because you are stuck in a blizzard of negative emotions associated with your loss. Perhaps you cannot see through the snowstorm? The sun still exists even when we cannot see it…when the clouds pass it reveals itself. Just because right now you cannot see what good might come of this does not mean that there are no gifts hidden in this experience. There are!